Process the negative; don’t spread it.

24 february | well hello M O N D A Y!
 
Now today is going to be a day you just want to be left alone!! Many of you will wake up in what feels like the middle of a process and for that reason you will want to escape into trying to understand or get to the bottom of something. This is why many of you will look like you are walking around in a fog and aren’t really here with what is going on. 
 
This energy is totally on schedule and you don’t need to worry, but it is something where it will be easy to judge yourself because you ARE a bit out of it. But allow your blood hound nose to drive you inward because there IS something for you to see or connect or awaken to that is an answer to something from your past that has kept you on this pattern where you are manifesting this similar situation in front of you. 
 
But now we are looking at things from the perspective of wanting to see change and not wanting to lose any more of our lives because of inaction or not knowing what to do or beating yourself up when you go into the cave or need downtime. 
 
One of the things about the past few weeks is that people have really been pulling others down. There have been a lot of hurtful words and people acting out in ways that they really would not have done even a few years ago – thus they are going backwards in their healing journeys. BUT. Anger is a part of grief and when we look at good vibes ONLY we see that anger is not allowed or it is judged and shamed into being this other thing. But anger is valid to the max and we NEED to get angry. BUT. We are not evolving if we slam that anger into others with words that hurt them or tear them apart -- like when we feel so hurt that we say, I HATE YOU!! But really – do we even know them? Or, do we REALLY hate them or is it that we hate something else going on in our lives or we are envious of what they have or we don’t understand them and they disagree with us. So we HATE them. 
 
I have always been speaking strongly to others that we aren’t really allowed to talk smack on people behind their backs and NOT have that energy come right back to us. Especially in 2020 and beyond because now people are more in tune to our insides and THAT is what they are feeling from us. 
 
And I too used to love the feeling of talking mean about others, in seeing them as small or insignificant or crazy or NOT what they want others to see them as, but after my 30s I shifted into a better way when I STOPPED doing that and stopped encouraging it in others. But it was my healing journey that got me to see my own pain that then projected all these other things on them. I faced my jealousy and said, BUT WHY AM I?  
 
And over the decades I’ve noticed that negative talkers, even if they do it in ways that seem innocent, or like they are not at all at fault with what is around them, none of them have lives that are where they want to be. And I noticed that happy people don’t talk smack on others, they always find some ways to WALK GRACEFULLY and see some sort of understanding in others bad or misunderstood behaviors –because remember that our wounds have us acting in bad ways but beyond the healing journey we are LOVE. We lash and thrash and try to destroy others lives when we are unhappy with our own. BUT we will NEVER get the better life through hurting others. It just won't happen. And if you are saying mean things to others or about others, your pain is creating a future that you are NOT going to like any better than the one you are in right now. 
 

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​If you are saying mean things 
to others or about others 
your pain is creating a future 
that you are NOT going to like 
any better 
than the one you are in right now.
Want a better future?
Say better things. 
See better things. 
And don’t be mean.