27 february | well hello T H U R S D A Y!
So we continue with the same energy yesterday where we need to be aware that others are coming with things they need to get off their shoulders. People want to talk about their emotions – but most people are not ready to HEAR emotions. -- This is where we must learn to level up.
I always use the Italian example because they are so clear in sharing whatever they are feeling. They were not programmed to hide things or to only let certain emotions rule. They show them ALL. And because of that, they flow in and out like water and aren’t these permanent stuck things that MOST people are because they were not raised to be Italian with their emotions.
But the thing is, when you are clear and express from the truth of your body – even if it is not considered correct by others, you then are able to move through your natural emotions. And because of that you also see how others change around the expressing of their feelings, and how ultimately maybe these clashes of misunderstanding are merely tests to see if WE can level up in how we hold the discord or the friction or the waring ways that are me against you.
Do we fight? Or do we work to listen and “see” how this affects us on the insides -- and pause before we lash into the reactions of our wounded states. This is basically the whole enchilada. When trauma comes, in the form of others tsunamis of trauma and fake news programming, we are in our ultimate test – to see how we respond – to see if we take the way of the RIP IN OUR TAPESTRY that forced us to now go into fight, flight or freeze ---- when in fact, THIS TIME we are to slow down, breathe, HEAR THEM OUT, try to find a sliver of understanding, try to find a way to hold them different so that you don’t go the path of the rip in the tapestry, and instead HEAL THAT WOUND by now responding in a way that holds what comes at you but does not allow it to paint you over and piss you off -- because you don’t got time to be painted on.
Ultimately as we awaken and do our inner work and find real good therapists to support us, we stop affirming the wound – and stop finding clash in certain situations that before would blow our mind and send us into the dumps into self-hatred or places where good things die.
And as we awaken, we realize that we can be the rock that goes into the lake and causes the ripples – and to realize that we can affect so much!!! It’s what moves us to be better peoples. When you are living from the heart, the realization that your imprint could send devastating ripples to others reality changes you in a heartbeat.
Within the mind space, we stay in things that hold us prisoner to our dreams because we believe we have to do this to support ourselves or our lives. But when we are in the heart and keeping it real, we feel different things around our choices – and if someone comes at you wounded to the max, are you going to give them your wounded right back? This time RECEIVE the pain they bring and see how YOU can make this better, how YOU can give a little more love or understanding so that you shift through this clash where you both are the better.
We have the power to influence. We just have to get out of the way of our wounds in order to show how right on we DO got this and are worthy of something greater out there.